If the relationship is not a good one, then sheÆs going to use menopause as a reason for saying, ÆI donÆt have to do that anymore. I can go play mah-jongg with my girlfriends. I can go do other things and I donÆt have to deal with this anymore.Æ ThatÆs what we have to change. We have to say this is a lifelong process, and we have to say, work on the relationship. ThatÆs why itÆs so important to talk about the relationship.  -   Ruth Westheimer     Quotes
If the relationship is not a good one, then sheÆs going to use menopause as a reason for saying, ÆI donÆt have to do that anymore. I can go play mah-jongg with my girlfriends. I can go do other things and I donÆt have to deal with this anymore.Æ ThatÆs what we have to change. We have to say this is a lifelong process, and we have to say, work on the relationship. ThatÆs why itÆs so important to talk about the relationship. Ruth Westheimer