[But yesterday, the ugly mess became unforgivable. That, of course, was when Garcia was forced to face questions about his prickly relationship with the receiver whose career he helped to make, and then about the interview itself, and then, sadly, about his sexual orientation, as if it was anybody else's freaking business. As if it matters. As if we need to hear him deny something. According to The Associated Press , Garcia] noted that it has been reported that he has a girlfriend and has had girlfriends in the past. ... So many people know my situation here. It has never been a secret. Jeff Garcia